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joinonelove.org/pre-feedback A few quick questions…

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A few quick questions…

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Icebreaker

Icebreaker

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Journal 1. What does love mean to you? 2. How do

Journal

1. What does love mean to you?
2. How do you want

to be treated in a friendship or relationship?
3. What are some things that are okay for friends to say to each other?
4. What are some things that are not okay for friends to say to each other?
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What Does One Love Do? One Love educates young people about

What Does
One Love Do?

One Love educates young people about the

importance of relationship health, empowering them to identify and avoid abuse, and learn how to
love better.
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in the United States have experienced some form of intimate partner

in the United States have experienced some form of intimate partner

violence during their lifetime.

*Sources: CDC, Safe Horizon, Corporate Alliance to End Domestic Violence

1 in 3

1 in 2

women

trans & nonbinary people

over

nearly

men

Relationship Abuse Facts

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Couplets When we say relationship, we’re talking about… Friendships Dating relationships Family members Teammates Classmates

Couplets

When we say relationship, we’re talking about…
Friendships
Dating relationships
Family members
Teammates
Classmates

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INTENSITY Watch video Discussion: What is the difference between intensity and independence? COUPLETS DISCUSSION

INTENSITY
Watch video

Discussion:
What is the difference between intensity and independence?

COUPLETS DISCUSSION

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How can you ensure that you have independence in your friendship

How can you ensure that you have independence in your friendship

or relationship?
What can you do if someone is behaving intensely toward you?

Intensity

COUPLETS DISCUSSION

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BELITTLING | PUT-DOWNS Watch video Discussion: What are put-downs? Why can they be harmful? COUPLETS DISCUSSION

BELITTLING |
PUT-DOWNS
Watch video

Discussion:
What are put-downs? Why can they be harmful?

COUPLETS

DISCUSSION
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Think about a time you were put-down. How did it feel?

Think about a time you were put-down. How did it feel?
What

does it mean to respect your partner or friend?

Belittling | Put-Downs

COUPLETS DISCUSSION

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VOLATILITY | ANGER Watch video Discussion: What physical changes did you

VOLATILITY |
ANGER

Watch video

Discussion:
What physical changes did you notice in

the Couplet?

COUPLETS DISCUSSION

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Have you ever felt like you have to walk on eggshells

Have you ever felt like you have to walk on eggshells

around someone because they could “blow-up”?
How can people handle emotions like anger or frustration in a healthy way?

Volatility | Anger

COUPLETS DISCUSSION

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BETRAYAL | DISRESPECT Watch video COUPLETS DISCUSSION Discussion: Do you think

BETRAYAL |
DISRESPECT

Watch video

COUPLETS DISCUSSION

Discussion:
Do you think it’s ever okay

to share private photos?
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What can you say to your friend if they are sharing

What can you say to your friend if they are sharing

someone else’s private photos or information?
Why is this disrespectful?

Betrayal | Disrespect

COUPLETS DISCUSSION

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Watch video GUILTING COUPLETS DISCUSSION Discussion: What does it mean to guilt someone?

Watch video

GUILTING

COUPLETS DISCUSSION

Discussion:
What does it mean to guilt someone?

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Can you think of a time when someone made you feel

Can you think of a time when someone made you feel

guilty for not doing something they wanted you to do? How did you respond?
If you have ever guilted someone, how can you take responsibility?

Guilting

COUPLETS DISCUSSION

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POSSESSIVENESS | CONTROL Watch video COUPLETS DISCUSSION Discussion: What do you think possessive means?

POSSESSIVENESS |
CONTROL

Watch video

COUPLETS DISCUSSION

Discussion:
What do you think possessive means?

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Was there ever a time when a friendship or relationship felt

Was there ever a time when a friendship or relationship felt

one-sided, as if the other person was calling all the shots? What made you feel this way?
How can you respond to jealousy in a healthy way?

Possessiveness | Control

COUPLETS DISCUSSION

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OBSESSION Watch video COUPLETS DISCUSSION Discussion: Have you ever felt like

OBSESSION

Watch video

COUPLETS DISCUSSION

Discussion:
Have you ever felt like a friend or partner

wants to spend all their time with you?
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Obsession Have you ever had to “break-up” with a friend before?

Obsession

Have you ever had to “break-up” with a friend before?
How might

social media make it harder to set boundaries with our friends?

COUPLETS DISCUSSION

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ISOLATION Watch video COUPLETS DISCUSSION Discussion: Why is isolation unhealthy?

ISOLATION

Watch video

COUPLETS DISCUSSION

Discussion:
Why is isolation unhealthy?

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Isolation Has anyone ever asked you to stop talking or being

Isolation
Has anyone ever asked you to stop talking or being friends

with other people?
How can you balance spending time with new friends or a new partner while still maintaining independence?

COUPLETS DISCUSSION

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joinonelove.org/feedback Your feedback is important to our work.

joinonelove.org/feedback

Your feedback is important to our work.

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National Resources LOVE IS RESPECT www.LoveIsRespect.org | 1-866-331-9474 or 1-866-331-8453 |

National Resources

LOVE IS RESPECT
www.LoveIsRespect.org | 1-866-331-9474 or 1-866-331-8453 | text

“loveis” to 22522
Contact LoveIsRespect if you want to talk to someone, need advice about your relationship or a loved one’s relationship, or if you have legal questions.
NATIONAL DOMESTIC VIOLENCE HOTLINE
1-800-799-SAFE (7233) | www.thehotline.org
NDV Hotline provides lifesaving tools and immediate support to enable victims to find safety and live lives free of abuse. Call if you would like more resources or information, or if you are questioning unhealthy aspects of your relationship. On the website, you can also find a helpful chat feature in English and Spanish.
NATIONAL SEXUAL ASSAULT HOTLINE
1-800-656-HOPE | www.rainn.org
The National Sexual Assault Hotline provides basic information for victims or friends/family of victims, short-term crisis intervention and support, answers to questions about recovering from sexual assault, and resources to assist with the reporting process via hotline or chat.
THE TREVOR PROJECT
www.thetrevorproject.org/ | 1-866-488-7386
The Trevor Project is the leading national organization providing crisis intervention and suicide prevention
services to lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and questioning (LGBTQ) young people.