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- 2. Most of us have been there. Families can be very difficult, and family problems are very
- 3. Method 1 Beginning the Discussion
- 4. 1.Wait until you're not angry to discuss this problem
- 5. Family problems can be very painful, especially around family-centered times, like holidays. If your family members
- 6. 2. Deal with family problems in person
- 7. We've all been there; we've all sent off a text or email that we wish we
- 8. 3. Accept everyone’s faults, including your own
- 9. They say that blood is thicker than water, and that you can choose your friends, but
- 10. 4. Avoid the blame game
- 11. Keep your language positive when you talk to your family. Avoid using language that puts blame
- 12. 5. Forgive any family members that have wronged you
- 13. This can be a very difficult thing to achieve. It is very hard to forgive a
- 14. Method 2 Getting at the Root of the Problem
- 15. 1. Identify the real problem
- 16. Try to figure out what is really going on. Perhaps you are struggling with health problems
- 17. 2. Ask questions to draw out the family member
- 18. A good technique for digging out the root causes of family problems is to ask questions
- 19. 3. Open a line of communication
- 20. Poor communication is involved in many, if not most, family problems. Shutting out the family member
- 21. 4. Recognize when family problems need to be discussed
- 22. When has a family problem risen to the point that it needs to be addressed? There
- 23. Method 3 Addressing the Family Problem
- 24. 1. Try to reach a compromise
- 25. Compromising means that you come up with a solution that both people can feel okay about
- 26. 2. Talk to family members one-on-one
- 27. There are some families that don't function well as a group. We've all been in dysfunctional
- 28. 3. Call a family council
- 29. Although a lot of disputes can be handled best one-on-one, there can be times where you
- 30. 4. Write a letter to the family member
- 31. Although electronic communication often seems too terse and impersonal, a heartfelt, handwritten letter can go a
- 32. 5.Address a family problem with a child
- 33. Sometimes your children can be the source of family problems, whether it’s acting disrespectfully, arguing with
- 34. Method 4 Letting Go of Family Problems
- 35. 1. Establish boundaries
- 36. If family members are toxic, and they are causing harm to you or constant drama in
- 37. 2. Know when it’s time to step back
- 38. There are some family problems that simply cannot be fixed. Some family problems also take time
- 39. 3. Seek counseling
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Most of us have been there. Families can be very difficult,
Most of us have been there. Families can be very difficult,
Method 1
Beginning the Discussion
Method 1
Beginning the Discussion
1.Wait until you're not angry to discuss this problem
1.Wait until you're not angry to discuss this problem
Family problems can be very painful, especially around family-centered times, like
Family problems can be very painful, especially around family-centered times, like
2. Deal with family problems in person
2. Deal with family problems in person
We've all been there; we've all sent off a text or
We've all been there; we've all sent off a text or
3. Accept everyone’s faults, including your own
3. Accept everyone’s faults, including your own
They say that blood is thicker than water, and that you
They say that blood is thicker than water, and that you
4. Avoid the blame game
4. Avoid the blame game
Keep your language positive when you talk to your family. Avoid
Keep your language positive when you talk to your family. Avoid
5. Forgive any family members that have wronged you
5. Forgive any family members that have wronged you
This can be a very difficult thing to achieve. It is
This can be a very difficult thing to achieve. It is
Method 2
Getting at the
Root of the Problem
Method 2
Getting at the
Root of the Problem
1. Identify the real problem
1. Identify the real problem
Try to figure out what is really going on. Perhaps you
Try to figure out what is really going on. Perhaps you
2. Ask questions to draw out the family member
2. Ask questions to draw out the family member
A good technique for digging out the root causes of family
A good technique for digging out the root causes of family
3. Open a line of communication
3. Open a line of communication
Poor communication is involved in many, if not most, family problems.
Poor communication is involved in many, if not most, family problems.
4. Recognize when family problems need to be discussed
4. Recognize when family problems need to be discussed
When has a family problem risen to the point that it
When has a family problem risen to the point that it
Method 3
Addressing the
Family Problem
Method 3
Addressing the
Family Problem
1. Try to reach a compromise
1. Try to reach a compromise
Compromising means that you come up with a solution that both
Compromising means that you come up with a solution that both
2. Talk to family members one-on-one
2. Talk to family members one-on-one
There are some families that don't function well as a group.
There are some families that don't function well as a group.
3. Call a family council
3. Call a family council
Although a lot of disputes can be handled best one-on-one, there
Although a lot of disputes can be handled best one-on-one, there
4. Write a letter to the family member
4. Write a letter to the family member
Although electronic communication often seems too terse and impersonal, a heartfelt,
Although electronic communication often seems too terse and impersonal, a heartfelt,
5.Address a family problem with a child
5.Address a family problem with a child
Sometimes your children can be the source of family problems, whether
Sometimes your children can be the source of family problems, whether
Method 4
Letting Go
of Family Problems
Method 4
Letting Go
of Family Problems
1. Establish boundaries
1. Establish boundaries
If family members are toxic, and they are causing harm to
If family members are toxic, and they are causing harm to
2. Know when it’s time to step back
2. Know when it’s time to step back
There are some family problems that simply cannot be fixed. Some
There are some family problems that simply cannot be fixed. Some
3. Seek counseling
3. Seek counseling